Why a single compatibility score falls short
Two people can share values and still differ on timing, living arrangements or how decisions are made. A percentage hides those details. Looking at themes one by one shows where you already agree and which topics deserve a longer conversation.
Themes that shape compatibility
These are the areas couples most often find worth discussing before marriage.
- Money: spending, saving, debt and support to parents
- Family: involvement, living arrangements and boundaries
- Careers and relocation, including NRI or long-distance plans
- Children: whether, when and how to parent
- Communication: how each of you handles conflict and repair
- Faith, culture and everyday routines
Individual reflection versus couple insights
ShaadiProblems starts with a private individual assessment. Your answers and report stay private. A couple view is only created when both partners separately choose to share, and either person can decline.
How to use what you learn
Treat differences as conversation starters, not warning signs. Pick one theme, ask an open question and listen before responding. If a topic feels stuck, premarital counselling with a qualified practitioner may help.
Related guides and services
- Marriage readiness assessment
- Questions to ask before an arranged marriage
- Questions to ask before marriage
- Premarital counselling in India
- Privacy, safety and boundaries
These prompts support reflection and conversation. They cannot verify a partner's honesty or safety, predict whether a marriage will succeed, or replace professional or legal advice. If you are in immediate danger, contact local emergency services.